At Bride Club ME, we know that saying “yes” is one of the most magical milestones in a bride-to-be’s journey. Before the spreadsheets, guest lists, and Pinterest boards take over, this is your moment to pause, soak it all in, and truly celebrate the start of your bridal chapter.

We’ve partnered with Amber, the heart behind The Modern Bridal Muse, to share her top tips on what to do right after you get engaged, before wedding planning officially begins. From treasuring the proposal glow to setting intentions with your fiancé, here’s how to embrace this exciting season of life.

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1. Enjoy the Bubble

Being proposed to is a HUGE milestone and a feeling that cannot be replaced. The afterglow is one that should be embraced and lived in for as long as possible. Let yourself dream and replay the moment a hundred times. Take the time to tell your closest family and friends, enjoy their reactions, and revel in this new status. You’re a FIANCÉ. This is just the start of your story.

2. Book an Engagement Shoot

This is the perfect opportunity to get familiar with your wedding photographer. Head to the desert for golden hour or stroll hand in hand along the beach. Capture this chapter, trust us, you won’t regret it! You can even use these photos as ‘save the dates’ or weave them into your wedding (or engagement party) décor. 

3. Share the News Your Way

When it’s time to share the news beyond your inner circle, announce it in a way that feels authentic. Whether you go all out with a big social media post (zero shame, by the way) or keep it casual and tell people as you see them, the key is to do it your way.

4. Celebrate with a Mini-Moment

Before the big parties come along, do something small but special. A bridesmaid-proposal brunch, a date day out with your future hubby perfume shopping for your wedding scent, or even a cute little cake tasting “just because.” These in-between celebrations are so underrated.

5. Ring TLC

It’s not the most glamorous detail, but it’s one so many brides overlook: insurance. Getting your ring insured gives you peace of mind, so if it ever gets scratched, chipped, or (heaven forbid) lost, you’re covered. That way, your forever piece will still be sparkling proudly on the big day.

6. Dream Out Loud

Take a moment with your fiancé to simply talk it out. What really matters to you both? What are your non-negotiables? And most importantly, how do you want the day to feel? Having these conversations early helps set the tone before Pinterest starts shouting its ideas at you. Remember, this is about the two of you — not what everyone else is doing.

7. Treasure Your Chapter as a Fiancé

This season will fly by quicker than you think, so capture the magic. Write down your proposal story, save little keepsakes, toast with champagne, and use the word “fiancé” as often as you like. This is your moment to simply be engaged — savour it and make the most of every second.

Final Note

You don’t have to have all the wedding details sorted yet. Right now, it’s all about the ring, the celebrations, and the joy of saying “yes.”

Above: Amber of The Modern Bridal Muse

Written by Amber, the heart behind The Modern Bridal Muse, inspiring brides beyond the aisle. From planning the engagement party that sets the tone, to the iconic hen and the dreamy honeymoon, The Modern Bridal Muse is here to guide, support, and simplify your bridal planning journey ‘before’ & ‘after’.